Homophobia is gay [Why being gay is like being ugly]

If you talk about gay rights, there are some people who will assume you are gay.

I think that shows an insane amount of selfishness about those people

“WHAT? YOU CARE ABOUT WHETHER GAY PEOPLE CAN GET MARRIED? YOU MUST LOVE EATING PUSSY!”
Can I just say that I actually don’t? It hurts your tongue after a while

Obviously you are only allowed to care about things that affect your day to day life. Right?

What is Empathy?

EM-PATH- EEEY?

Is that some kind of medical practice?

‘Hello I’m an empatholigist’

The question shouldn’t be 'why do I care about whether gay people should be able to get married' but 'Why do YOU think it's your right to decide whether gay people can get married?'
...even though it does not affect you AT. ALL?

…though I enjoy a good pair of boobs as much as the next man, I am never going to marry a women unless it is Michelle Williams.

Despite my nickname ‘Mikgayla’ that was given to me by a friend,

I love the D.

I can see why gay dudes would also love the D.

Dicks are awesome in a really ugly kind of way.

They kind of look like how a worm would look if you put a beanie on it.




And I see why gay women like other women.

Women are fucking awesome too and boobs are fantastic.

Women are mostly just better to look at than men

They are easier to talk to than men.

They look better naked than men

…honestly if I did like to eat pussy I would be the biggest lesbian ever.

I would just be lezing it up 24/7

And I would want to get married.

Gay marriage shouldn’t even be a question.

Gay people already raise families and produce children and as far as I know the world hasn’t ended yet.

Gay men can already suck each others dicks and fuck each other in the ass in this country and there is nothing you can do about it.

They can do this:


....and this:

...and this




But you won’t let them have a piece of paper?

There are gay men, right now in their rooms just sucking each other and fingering each others ass holes and they can do that.

That’s allowed

And you know what?

You don’t have to watch them if that grosses you out

and I am pretty sure they don’t want to watch you with your beer gut and tiny penis, having sweaty disgusting sex with your equally unattractive girlfriend.

　

If the fact is you don’t want people to BE gay. There is absolutely nothing you can do about it.

A lot of the world would prefer that people weren’t ugly but there are ugly people

There is nothing I, or anybody else can do about just how physically unattractive some people are.

They were born ugly and they are ugly and there is NOTHING they can do to change their appearance.

They visit a surgeon and he’s like

“No dude even I can‘t help you”

There are a lot of ugly people that are just shitty people and I don’t like them.

But there are a lot of ugly people who are really nice or really smart or really funny and able to change the world and I like them.

Some of my favourite people in the world are ugly.

Their ugliness doesn’t make them bad people, in fact for some it makes them more interesting.

　

I love you man. I am sorry I keep calling you ugly in all my blog posts. I would seriously bang the shit out of you

I can hear you saying:

“WHAT THE FUCK MICHAELA? ARE YOU SAYING HOMOSEXUAL PEOPLE ARE UGLY PEOPLE? WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?”

Calm down, I am not.

I have a point to get to if you will just let me.

Some people are born ugly and some people are born gay.

Some ugly people are total wankers

and so are some gay people

and so are some attractive people

and so are some hetrosexual people.

Your level of attractiveness is not something you can change [without surgery]

You are just born that way.

You have a horrible nose and a forehead that takes up half of your face

You fall into the top 10% of the worlds most repulsive people to look at

People flee in the streets when they see you

Mothers cover up their children’s eyes

…O.k now I actually am getting a tad off track



Like ugliness, homosexuality is something you are born with.

You don’t learn to be ugly. You just are.


...well most of the time

I am not saying that being gay is the same as being ugly…more often than not, we all know that isn’t true.

I’m looking at you Portia DeRossi

Yet in this world being gay can be like being ugly. They face many similar problems.

Gay people and ugly people have to try harder at things than straight and attractive people because much of the world seems to have a generally negative attitude toward them for what they are rather than who they are.

When you are really ugly, you already know that in the dating world there is a limited amount of people that will actually sleep with you….you are in the bottom 10% so lets assume, you are limited to that group of people, unless you are famous or rich.

As gay people make up [approximately] only 10% of the population also, their dating chances are also limited unless they are famous or rich.

No seriously. Portia DeRossi


Who wouldn’t turn for her?

Gay people are persecuted by strangers for not wanting to hide who they are…much like ugly people are persecuted by strangers for leaving the house without covering their face with a bag.

　

...the similarities are endless (probably not)

If you don’t want people to BE gay. There is nothing you can do about it in the same way that you can’t make an ugly person ‘not ugly’

The thing is ugly people are allowed to get married.

There is a website dedicated to them
http://www.thedistractionnetwork.com/ugly-married-couples/


I do not care if ugly people get married

I do not care if gay people get married

What I care about is if stupid, narrow minded, shitty people get married because they are then allowed to produce shitty children who think they have the right to make decisions about another persons life.

I feel like homophobic people are just generally really selfish, bored people in general because why on earth would you deny somebody something that will in no way affect you?
... and since there is not much else I can say on the topic that hasn’t already been said, I will leave you with a series of other great people saying great stuff about homophobia









































And some sweet pictures of gay couples...Seriously How could you object to this?

I am surprised you managed to look at anything long enough to review it, given that your head lives permanently inside your own anus

Fuck.

I hate elitist wankers who try to tear people down

I look at comments on some peoples videos or writing and can't believe how vicious and moronic others can be to say these things to somebody who pours their sole into making something they are proud of.

I just want to hug the people that made it and be like “Congratulations for creating something”

Congratulations for putting yourself out there and not being the person on the other side of the screen who never does anything but still thinks it's O.K to talk down to somebody that does.
 

I look at these adds uni-kid blogs created by some person that has done a semester of a writing course and gets off on writing patronising shit in their advertisement about the quality they expect of stories and that they will not even look at applicants that haven't 'something something pretentious bullshit blah blah blah' ...for a website that literally has 6 followers.

Get. The. Fuck. Over. Yourself

All I want to do is write the type of stories that I want to write and not be condescended or limited by people who I don't admire or respect.

I DO NOT give a fuck if 99% of the reading population think that anything I make is trivial, superficial or self indulgent because I don't want to read or look at the shit that 99% of the human population produce.

That doesn't mean that I don't think it has value.

Everything that anybody writes has some kind of importance to the person who writes it and when you share anything with the world, you know that you are leaving yourself open to criticism and that can make you feel pretty vulnerable so it's a risk you take.

What I can't believe is how some honestly believe that have the right to say nasty, unproductive shit about something that somebody has worked hard on and not even just be critical but just cruel.

Why does every other person think they are in a position to review shit like they are god damn Margaret and David?

Unless your opinion is specifically sought out then you can just go and write that shit on your Facebook and share it with your equally narrow-minded friends and leave people to do their own thing and be proud of it

You will neverbe this adorable. NEVER

In the words of Taylor Swift 'Why you gotta be so mean'

And also in the words of the Pope “Fuck yourself”...He says that-right?


"Talk to the hand"...he says that too now

To upset any fanatic of The Beatles, list a song by The Monkeys as your 'favourite ever Beatles song'- How I deal with elitist wankers

What I am about to say is probably going to make me unpopular with 99.9% of the music loving population but when it comes to The Beatles, when it comes to their music, I can take them or leave them.

WHAT THE HELL DID SHE JUST SAY?

KILL HER

KILL HER WITH FIRE

 

Let me finish Motherfucker!

I don't hate The Beatles and I am not disrespecting what they have done for music or the fact that most of the bands that I love were probably in some way either directly or indirectly influenced by the music of The Beatles

so just chill out and put down your weapons.

I don't dislike The Beatles. If their music was playing, I would happily listen to it, I wouldn't leave the room or send complaint emails to the venue playing them like I would if it was Nickelback

True story, I unsubscribed to Ticketek emails when they sent me a newsletter about NickelBack and my life goal is to punch Chad Kroger in the throat for creating the music that he has.

That is how much I hate Nickelback

but I do not hate The Beatles.

To me, The Beatles are like the Grandpa of a Boyfriend

I can see his value

I thank him for having sex with his wife and procreating so that his son could then go on to have a son that I could bang (His grandson in this scenario is a mixtape of music that I love... so I guess his grandmother was some strumpet of a woman who could scat and his Mum was probably Missie Elliot....don't over-think it, this metaphor is going to be really poorly constructed)

I will talk to him at family gatherings and listen to him saying a bunch of stuff but I kind of float in and out between staring at my boyfriends dad and thinking that he is surprisingly hot for a fifty-something year old...

Stay with me, my boyfriends dad is Nirvana...as in the band not the 'state of being'... I'll get back to this creepy story in a second

What brought me to writing this article was when Nirvana was playing at work today and I chose to share with my workmates that I “Didn't get the hype”

I don't know why I said it.
...I just talk sometimes.


If I had taken even half a second to think about it, I would have remembered the response that this kind of comment had evoked in people when I have previously shared my opinion on that band ..like the time when I honestly had the audacity to say that I like the Foo-Fighters more. What? Blasphemy!

I do kind of love this photo though

It's cool guys, hold yourself together. Try to stay calm.

The thing is , when it comes to The Beatles, I DO get the hype, I will listen to them at a party and even enjoy it but like Grandpa, I will not actively seek them out.

I will never make lunch plans with Grandpa in my free time

I will never text him to say “How's it going? Want to share some tapas and see the new Paul Rudd film?”

But before you attack me with your keyboards and tell me that maybe I just haven't heard enough of Grandpa, maybe I am too young to get Grandpa, maybe I am an asshole who doesn't deserve ears so you are going to cut off my ears because ears were invented to listen to Grandpa/The Beatles.

Before you do that

shut up please.

I like- nay LOVE Frank Sinatra and last time I checked he was old as fuck when I was born and dead by the time I was 10...so this isn't an age thing

... considering that most people like The Beatles, people younger than me and older than me

... then age does not really seem to be a valid argument, I will not wake up in 5 years and suddenly love them because I am 30

I have heard The Beatles... how could I not?

I have never actively sought them out but they end up on various devices that I own just because somebody put them there and I don't delete them but I have never had a moment where I am like THE BEATLES ARE WHAT I NEED RIGHT NOW because they are not EVER but that doesn't mean I don't feel something when I hear 'I wanna hold your hand' or that I dismiss them BUT if the choice is between listening to them or listening to The Violent Femmes, the Femmes win.
That probably leaves me vulnerable to to some condescending Wonka meme
 

SHUT UP WONKA

...and I know I am going to be word-raped by people for that choice for the rest of my life because people that love something often believe that it is their God-given right to yell at people who don't agree with them.

So to combat this, I have invented a fun game to torment the kind of elitist Beatles Fans that that like to stand over the smaller percentage of population who do not consider themselves to be fanatics

I like to call this game;

“How to make a Beatles fan angry”
The rules of “How to make a Beatles fan angry” are simple, it merely entails picking a Beatles song at random and telling the said 'Elitist Beatles Fan' that it is your “absolute favourite song by The Monkeys”

or you can flip it and pick one of The Monkeys song titles, perhaps the famous theme-song and say “Have you heard that really fun song by the Beatles? I really like it it goes 'Hey hey we're The Monkeys....'...”

Either way will piss them off fine.

"I'm fucking with you"

If you think that The Beatles songs are the greatest songs ever made, that is cool with me and probably a popular opinion but my belief is just that it is simply not true.

Great Music is made every day and in my mind, there has been and will continue to be better.

I feel that I am justified to say this because I feel the best is yet to come

I acknowledge The Beatles for what they are which was revolutionary for the time and their music continues to live on in a time where other bands have been phased out or forgotten.

It doesn't really matter what I think anyway....so sucked in to you for reading this far!

 John Lennon is not rolling in his grave because some chick from Australia who can't even play piano properly said she was 'meh' on his music...he doesn't give a fuck.

It is only my opinion and in my opinion, on closer inspection, Nirvana/my boyfriends' dad would look ridiculous naked and I like my boyfriends creepy uncle, Foo Fighters much more and I am so far off track that I can not get back

 

"Suppose Nancy sees me coming out of the shower and decides to come on to me. I'm looking good, got a luscious v of hair going through my chest pubes down to my ball fro. She takes one look at me and goes " Oh my god, I've had the old bull now I want the young calf" and she grabs me by the weiner"

worst/most sluttish analogy EVER

 AND WHO THE FUCK INVITED CHAD KROGER?

 

 

Also today while exchanging weird hate-stories, I found out that somebody who eats almost everything, including food off the ground, doesn't like bacon and and another pal doesn't like Seinfeld....WHAAAAT?

 

 

Glitter excites me more than human interaction- A guide to being a hermit

Glitter excites me more than human interaction- A guide to being a hermit

So I have just had two days off.

While most young people would take that time to socialise, maybe have a drink and go to a show, here is how I spent my time:

Saturday after I signed off at my terrible cafe job, I decided I needed new work shoes...I know what you're thinking MICHAELA THIS STORY IS SO RIVETING TELL ME MORE...DID YOU FIND YOUR WORK SHOES? I AM ON THE EDGE OF MY SEAT. I NEED TO KNOW HOW IT ALL WORKED OUT FOR YOU!

Well yes, I did ….but I have a system that dictates whenever I buy one practical thing, I then need to buy AT LEAST ten things that I don't really need... so after that I went to the dollar shop and found shit-loads of beads and glitter, I don't even know why, my home is filled with shit-loads of beads and glitter but I couldn't help it, my heart was pounding I NEEDED MORE.

My excitement suddenly came to a halt as I tried to think about the last time I had been as excited about anything as I was to unwrap all this crap and play with it.

I thought for a while and I found myself back at the last time that I had gone on a glitter rampage and it suddenly became clear to me what A Nigella-No-Friends I am becoming.

As I left the shop I was left with mixed feelings of excitement and embarrassment and I felt myself pulling a similar facial expression to one I had seen a friend of mine make when I caught him watching porn on his phone in my in my living room...the only thing missing was a boner and if girl showed excitement in the way that males do, right then I had a giant lady boner for glitter.

Glitter had become my porn.

This little guty came up when I was googling pictures for 'ashamed'...I don't know what he did, but he looks like he feels pretty bad about it

It's sad but when I think about it there are so many things in this world that I like more than I like most people. I know that is a bit pathetic and incredibly anti-social to say that but it is quite true.

These shoes I made with the shit I bought for instance....



...or playing shadow puppets (That's a howling dog)...



...or the part in 'The Wedding singer' where this happens:


...and a long list of other stuff.

I remember when I had freshly turned 18 and was so excited by all the doors that opened up...well mainly venue doors.
I could get into 'Next'...(now known as Hot Damn...holy shit I feel old) and Purple sneakers without using my terrible fake-ids that never looked a thing like me

(to the point where a security guard laughed so hard that he called another security guard over to laugh with him about how stupid I was for thinking that anybody would believe that it was me)

and at that point I centred my weeks around all the shows I wanted to go to.

While I still love music (It's on that long list of things I love more than being near other people) I find myself getting really easily annoyed at shows

and then I just feel like an old Grandma party-pooper because the people I am annoyed at are just there trying to have fun
but they are breathing on me
sweating on me
yelling near me
and my feet are hurting
WAH
I want to go home and watch Parks And Recreation by myself and eat Pringles until I fall asleep.

It is not right. I am only 24 and though many of the teenagers I cross tell me that I am old... I never expected to feel this way at this age.

The worst part is I am not even sad about it. I don't long for my teen years, they were fucking exhausting.

The thing is I feel that I should be ashamed by the admissions I have made and am about to make because apart from being a tiny bit sick (I will save all my terrible that-time-of-month-jokes for my facebook page) I actually had a pretty enjoyable two days off.

I danced around my house to the Arctic Monkeys for a while then I felt a little bit weird for dancing by myself for so long

....like Robyn in that song- Dancing on my own

...and then she starts going on about how she is stalking some guy that she used to date

and it's WEIRD ROBYN

....so naturally I invited my dog inside to dance with me

...which means I held him up and told him to act like he was enjoying himself

...it was a weird lonely time for me

....probably much weirder than any song Robyn has ever written but I still wasn't ashamed.

I like Robyn, but I get the feeling that if you don't "call your girlfriend" she would probably murder you.

 

My dog after I forced him to pretend to like me:

I contemplated going out but then watched Spirited instead then decided to go onto IMDB for a really long time and research everything about the main character, Matt King. I did it with a real sense of urgency too.

I NEED TO KNOW EVERYTHINGABOUT THIS BRITISH WONDER POST-HASTE!

(I hope you read that in a weird British accent because that is how I wrote it)

I also gave myself a haircut because I wanted to look like Karen O but ended up looking more like Lloyd Christmas.

Also my 'Flocabulary' arrived today. I am teaching myself how to rap so the next time I write a rant on what a saddo I am, it will rhyme.

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If I was a boy...or magic...SPOILER: this ends in me buying gold teeth

I spend way too much time in my life imagining alternate lives for my self. You know just out of curiosity. I wouldn't want to be somebody or something else permanently but just to try it out.

If I was a booooy

If I was a man for a day I probably wouldn't do all that much of the things that Beyonce sings about in her song “If I was a boy”.

My first step as a male would be to take a wee somewhere...anywhere because I would have a penis and I can whip it out at my leisure.

A lot of the things I would do as a guy would revolve around having a penis.

I'd shave to make it look bigger and then just send dick picks to all my lovely male friends who have found it funny over the years to send them to me and then I'd say “Sorry I was drunk”.

I would probably try to bang a girl too just to compare male and female orgasms.

I don't really know how this whole thing would work because there isn't the technology to make me a dude for just a day...

“Excuse me doctor, do you mind flipping my junk inside out then changing it back in 24 hours..I am just a bit curious”
...yeah I am pretty sure that's not how that procedure works at all
I understand things.

"Fuck off you mental bitch"

...also I wonder if I would be a hot guy or an uggo???...If I had bad acne I would grow a short beard to make people think I am a bit of a hipster while disguising my appearance at the same time.

I'd probably just take a nap after that and when I wake up I'd ask the doctor for my vagina back as I quite like it most of the time.

If I had super-powers

I used to always play this game with my house-mate where we would think up the best super-powers and pick which ones we would rather have.

He mostly found ways to trick me into picking a super-power then when I chose it, he'd tell me all these faults in the my choice

... “Oh yeah you chose the power of flight but I forgot to mention that you can only hover 2 centre-metres above the ground, travel at 1km per hour and it only works if you are wearing a skirt...so everyone is looking at your undies...also you have to eat loads of carrots for your flight mode to work...and then you shit your pants and die...great choice”

I also love Sabrina The Teenage witch. I am mocked by my pals for this but I don't give a shit. Sabrina gets to do all these cool things and Salem, her talking cat just sits around saying witty stuff and it.is.awesome.

As a child I also used to squint my eyes so people would think I was Alex Mac and some magic shit was about to go down...
The nineties was a difficult decade for a mentally challenged young person, such as myself


Sidenote: How hot is Larissa Oleynik?

If I was a magical person, the first thing I would do is allow my dog to talk. He would sound like James Earl Jones and we'd be best buds and no matter how badly I messed up, the episode would be resolved within half an hour and I'd learn a lesson from my magic teacher and everything would be great again.

I would do all the stuff that the Sabrinas' aunts tries to teach you is bad...because you only value things if you have to work for them....which is maybe sort of true but I wouldn't give a shit because I'M MAGIC, MOTHERFUCKER!

I would be pointing my finger at stuff to get it
Instead of walking for food I would zap it with my hand,which would mean I wouldn't get any exercise but that's fine because I could just zap away all excess fat and cellulite.

I would also do some spell so I could be hot all the time and never again be asked “are you sick?” on a day where I leave the house without makeup.

I would pause time just to really fuck with people.

If somebody was being mean, I'd pause time and then just punch the shit out of them for as long as it took for me not to be mad any more
...because in real life I could never ever beat anybody in a fight.

When I un-paused, I'd just be super chilled like nothing happened and say:

“Guy, are you ok? You look like you've just been punched in the face at least 38 times”

...holy hell there is so much magic stuff I would do if I was a magic person, this probably could be pages long. Imma stop

If I was a politician

I would seriously suck at it because I have no patience or attention span and a really limited amount of bullshit that I am able to ingest from politicians but like most people I have that brief moment when a government does something stupid that makes me think “I can run this country better...”

...which I couldn't
..... but I have loads of ideas
...with no possible grasp of how I could implement them.

I can't even make my pay last a fortnight right now so I think I would suck at trying to play with a whole countries budget

Also I am female so people would call me a 'slut' and comment on my hair colour no matter what I did;even if it was something sensible.

Here are some things I would do:

Legalise gay marriage...because why the hell not?

Get dental care covered by Medicare because I want my teeth whitened... where is all the money coming from? I don't know


WARNING
it goes down hill from here...

Abolish taxes
...hell abolish money and then make everything else free

...which I guess would mean a lot of people wouldn't work

so unemployment would go up and most things wouldn't be staying open if they weren't getting money and people were just taking free stuff

but we'd all just help each other out and have a party everyday so that's nice

...maybe we could all get a little crack addiction too because the nice crack makers would just be giving it out

and everyone's just having a great time because they are just doing whatever and life is great

....please nobody ever let me become a member of parliament.

If I was famous

I wouldn't be a winging cockhead that complains 24 hours a day about never having any privacy because if I was really just doing it 'for the love of the art' I wouldn't hang out in paparazzi infested areas every chance I got.

Hi guys, have you heard of a little somebody called Natalie Portman???
..she is famous as shit yet even in the height of her fame she manges not to end up in annoying magazines because instead of seeking attention then complaining about it, she just does her thing

...by the way her 'thing' is 'being freaking awesome'.

If I was famous, I'd want to be just like Kate Nash and use my fame to be involved in cool projects that mean something to me and raising awareness for important issues...rather than being an ignorant dipshit like Taylor Momsen.

"Um, right now I'm trying to just finish my record and getting through the last season of Gossip Girl for right now. So not so much thinking about that." - Taylor to OK magazine, on the devastating earthquake in Haiti

Kate Nash is way better at being famous

She is a huge advocate for womens rights
She is always volunteering her time to local and international issues

And an ambassador for a great music program in U.K schools that encourages girls to learn to play an instrument
She has a podcast which is an Agony Aunts type thing where she responds to teen girls questions that often centre around self esteem issues

...that is the kind of stuff people should do with fame

...I could go on about all the other stuff she is involved in but at this point I think I'd be the only one paying attention so  just look at how cute she is....

If I was rich

I would buy things I didn't need...I want to say I would donate it to the poor but I am just going to insert a Louis C.k quote intsead.

“My life is really evil, like There are people who are starving in the world, and I drive an Infiniti. That’s really evil. There are people who would just starve to death. That’s all they ever did. There’s people who are like born, and they go, “Oh, I’m hungry,” and then they just die. And that’s all they ever got to do. And meanwhile, I’m in my car, like having a great time and I sleep like a baby. It’s totally my fault, ‘cause I could trade my Infiniti for like a really good car, like a nice Ford Focus with no miles on it,and I’d get back like $20,000. And I could save hundreds of people from dying of starvation with that money, and every day I don’t do it. Every day I make them die with my car.’”

—

Louis C.K

Look at his little face

It is completely disturbing that there is enough money in the world for no person to have to die of hunger yet people do all the time

We low income earners [by Australias standards] whine and say how some Billionare has a fancy as hell house that could feed a 3^rd world country

...but a lot of us do buy useless superficial shit that makes us momentarily feel good about ourselves even though soon after it gets chucked aside and forgotten about and we cry poor. 

Guilty.

Why shouldn't we buy things with money that we earn?
And why shouldn't billionares?

People look to them like they have a social responsibility to save the world but how often do the rest of us buy an unnecessary fancy dinner which priced, could feed a starving child for a month?

It doesn't mean we don't sponsor our buddy for Movember or donate to a fund-raiser when we can but it does mean that we are all a little bit selfish and probably just thought that salmon in a restaurant sounded a whole lot better than the last pack of Migoreng in the cupboard that expired 2 years ago...

Did I just get a bit deep?

Look guys, if I am being honest, if I was a billionare, I would like to believe I cared enough about the world to donate a good chunk of my money to trying to save the world but I'd also probably buy a motherfucking yacht and some gold teeth...just because

If I was a Kardashian:

I would punch myself in the face

"We decided to film for the wedding. And that was a decision that he and I made together. But I think that, with any decisions in life, like, I spoke to a girl today who had cancer and we were talking about how this is such a hard thing for her, but it taught her a big lesson on who her friends are and so much about life. She's 18. And I was like, that's how I feel."- Kim Kardashian

Really? Comparing CANCER to your annoying wedding?

'Nice guys' may finish last but good dudes don't.

 

Chances are if you are the kind of guy that refers to yourself as 'A nice guy', you are probably also a bit of a douche-bag.

A shitty person is capable of being 'nice' but if that sweetness is only a pleasantry to get a girl into bed then it really isn't that 'nice' at all.

"These nice flowers are for you...on the condition that we get to bang later"

I have a lot of guy friends who I love as friends but who I've spoken to about girls and seen in relationships and they are the fucking worst at it.

These guys will do all the sweet things it takes to get somebody to like them but then as soon as they have them, they treat them terribly. As soon as they have them they stop doing all the nice things it took to get them.

They revert back to being single guys, despite the fact that they no longer are.

These dudes are the same ones that will say something like “I'm sick of being the nice guy it gets me no where”....

right after saying something else like “That chick didn't say hi to me. What a slut”

… yeah man, you sound like a really kind-hearted person,I can't believe she didn't want to hang out with you, what gal doesn't want to be with a guy that refers to women as 'sluts'?

What a mental bitch

you really are a catch.

Honestly if you see a hot girl and just want to bang her because she is hot and are straight up honest about it,you are probably a nicer dude than the guy that courts her for weeks,buying her flowers then inevitably screws her over later when he finds out that she is boring as shit.

I will gladly comfort my pals that get ditched by guys or girls that they did everything right by and tell them cliché but truthful words ' You just weren't right for each other, you'll meet somebody new'.

I have stayed up many late nights over the years listening to my heartbroken friends and felt for them because they are 'The good guys'

... but I have also listened to many of stories by people who I love just as much where I've been like:

“Yeah you were a bit shit at being that persons boyfriend/girlfriend”.

If you are a person that is into grand gestures and are happy to be doing them for the rest of your life, then by all means start a relationship that way but if you are just doing something to get the girl to like you and not to make her happy, don't expect somebody to fall in love with you that way and certainly do not refer to yourself as “A good guy”

...think about this grand gesture when you are about to pay heaps of money to have somebody write Lucy's name in the sky and think:
'would I still be doing this if there was absolutely no possible way that this girl will ever touch my dick?'

if the answer is yes then go for it, if it is all about making that person happy, do it

….and even if it is just about wanting her to touch your dick, do it but don't ever complain about being 'the good guy' again, because you are not.